Anxiety???
Can anxiety or depression make you have thoughts of not being with the person you love?? I have been with this guy for 2 years and we use to be so happy and we still are happy but, I have feelings of being ill with him or not wanting to be around him sometimes, caould this be a problem caused be anxiety or depression? Or could it be the fact the we have just been together so long that the new has worn off and we are just content with each other? My mother asys she thinks it alittle of both that i have anxiety and that the new has worn off and the feeling of being all happy when we see each other has faded, and that maybe i thought the happy feelings would always be there and I have not learned how to accept that change of feelings from happy to content. I am so afraid that this all going to narrow down to us not being together anymore and it breaks my heart and makes me cry when I think of not being with him I would rather die!!
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It’s true that with time you get too used to something and that initial thrill wears off.
If you say that you’re in love with him but are a step short of being fully contented with your relationship then I advise you discuss the same with your guy and the both of you can work together in spicing things up which would again bring you to a point of being fully contented and happy.
You could probably get involved in some recreation together or go out for a trip or something else that will bring about a some change which will boost your spirit and rejuvenate your relationship.
Last but not the least, if nothing else works, get hold of a professional counselor who will give you good guidance in pepping up your relationship and staying contented with it.
Wish you well.
All the best.
go to the dr and explain..maybe u need some meds
You did a good job of explaining your feelings, but now you need to think about what that person is doing to contribute to making you react this way. Do you not like or not agree with everything the guy does? What bothers you most about him, specifically? If these answers are that he is OK, then think about whether you want to see other people. Maybe you are anxious because you want to know new people.
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good luck.
ok i will answer this in a month. come on u know it u were with him fr a long time & u r not enjoying his company now it simply means u were attracted by his personality only nothing else if wana know more miail me.
sorry, very long question why dont u chat with me now ?
I agree with your mother, I have been with my hubby for 14years and I have depression, sometimes things feel like you just don’t want to be with anyone or anything, you just have to find the middle ground, if you love him the way you say, it will work out the way you want. You just have to work on yourself, and explain to him how you are feeling. If it get to bad seek professional help. Good luck with everything